Today we cremated my aunt. She’d been unwell for a little while and I had seen this pristine, classy and vibrant person I had grown up with fade little by little. Still does not make her passing any more bearable. All through the service My mind ran to thoughts of what I will leave behind and my new siblings I have in my life. I was just thinking how much they each mean to me and I’d hate not to let them know how much I love each and every one of them, including the ones that have opted to not speak to me.